Anal toys guide
Curious? Take your time.
A little curious, or already know what you like? Start with the feeling you fancy, then find a shape and size that suit you. There’s no prize for choosing the biggest thing in the room.
“A little curiosity. Absolutely no hurry.”
Find the style that suits you
Open a section for help choosing. Each Shop button takes you to that collection of products.
Start with the shape
Butt plugs
A plug is a lovely place to compare simple shapes: a tapered tip, a narrower neck and a base that stays outside. Some are smooth and understated; others bring a little sparkle or vibration.
Before you choose: Compare the widest insertable diameter, neck and base, not just total length. Choose a purpose-made anal design with a substantial flared base.
Small butt plugs
If you’d like a gentle introduction, this is the shelf to browse first. A smaller, smooth shape keeps the choice straightforward while you find out what you enjoy.
Before you choose: “Small” varies between brands. Read the actual measurements, material and flexibility; a firm little plug can feel different from a softer one.
Anal training kits
A set gives you several sizes to choose from without another shopping trip. That can be handy when you’re still learning what feels comfortable.
Before you choose: The larger sizes are options, not a timetable. Check the smallest size suits you and never push through discomfort to move up.
Anal beads
Prefer a series of smaller shapes to one continuous plug? Beads offer a different design to explore, with flexible strands and firmer styles to compare.
Before you choose: Look for a secure retrieval handle or flared stop, clear bead diameters and a construction you can clean thoroughly. They should be specifically designed for anal use.
Prostate massagers
These curved designs are shaped with prostate stimulation in mind. Choose between a simple shape and a powered model if you fancy adding vibration.
Before you choose: Check the curve, insertable size, base and controls. A product’s name won’t tell you whether its shape is right for your body.
Large butt plugs
Already have a comfortable favourite and know you enjoy a fuller shape? Measurements matter more here than an impressive product photo.
Before you choose: Compare against a toy you already know. Wider is a different choice, not a better one, and a large flared base remains essential.
Choose the finish
Jewel butt plugs
A little sparkle can be part of the fun. Jewel styles add a decorative finishing touch while keeping the insertable shape simple.
Before you choose: Check the actual plug material, weight and base dimensions. The pretty part shouldn’t distract from a comfortable, secure fit.
Tail butt plugs
For a playful outfit or a little dress-up, a tail brings the character. Pick the look you like, then check the plug underneath it.
Before you choose: The plug needs its own secure flared base; a tail alone is not a safety stop. Follow separate cleaning instructions for the plug and decorative tail.
Metal butt plugs
Metal brings a firm, smooth feel and a little more weight. It can suit someone who already knows the dimensions they enjoy.
Before you choose: Check the exact metal and finish, especially with sensitivities. Firm materials don’t give, so compare diameter carefully and inspect for damage.
Glass butt plugs
Glass offers a smooth, firm finish with colours and shapes that can feel rather special to unwrap.
Before you choose: Choose purpose-made glass toys with a suitable base. Inspect before each use for chips or cracks, and avoid sudden temperature changes.
Fantasy butt plugs
Fancy something less ordinary? Fantasy shapes bring playful textures, unusual curves and plenty of personality.
Before you choose: Ridges and changes in width affect the feel. Check every relevant dimension, not just the narrow tip, and choose a design with a secure flared base.
Tunnel butt plugs
A hollow centre makes these different from a solid plug. They are a specialist choice for shoppers who already know this is the design they want.
Before you choose: Compare the outside width, opening and base separately. A tunnel is not a reason to add objects that aren’t designed and compatible for the intended use.
Add a little extra
Vibrating butt plugs
If a little buzz sounds appealing, start by comparing controls and low settings. Simple buttons can be just as enjoyable as a long list of modes.
Before you choose: Check charging, waterproof rating and whether you can reach the controls easily. More settings don’t automatically mean a better match.
Remote-controlled butt plugs
A separate remote keeps the buttons handy or gives a partner a little part to play. A good option when you’d rather leave your phone out of it.
Before you choose: Check whether the remote is included, its batteries and the maker’s range. Keep a reliable way to switch the toy off within reach.
App-controlled butt plugs
For custom patterns or a little connection from afar, an app adds more ways to share control.
Before you choose: Confirm phone compatibility and which features work over the internet. Long-distance control needs the relevant app and connection, not just Bluetooth.
Cock ring butt plugs
These combine a ring and anal section in one design. They can appeal when you already enjoy both and want to compare a combined fit.
Before you choose: Both sections need to fit comfortably together. Check ring dimensions, anal base design and an easy way to remove it; stop for pain, numbness or colour changes.
Inflatable anal toys
Adjustable inflation is a specialist option, rather than a shortcut to finding your first size. The uninflated shape still needs to suit you.
Before you choose: Read the exact model’s limits and release instructions before choosing. Never chase maximum inflation or continue through pressure that feels uncomfortable.
The useful extras
Anal lube
Give comfort a proper place in the plan. Anal play needs lubricant, and a thicker formula may be useful when you prefer it to stay where you put it.
Before you choose: Check compatibility with your toy and any barriers. Avoid numbing products: you need to be able to feel discomfort and stop.
Douches & cleansing
If you want cleansing accessories, compare simple designs that are easy to take apart and clean. They’re an optional personal choice, not a requirement for enjoying yourself.
Before you choose: Avoid harsh cleansers and over-cleaning. Follow the product instructions; irritation is a reason to stop, not clean more.
A comfortable first choice
Pick a smooth, modest size, a secure flared base and compatible lube. Take your time, keep control and stop if anything hurts. Clean toys between people or body areas; don’t transfer an anal toy straight to vaginal use.
A few quick answers
I’m curious but a bit nervous. What should I look at first?
A small, smooth plug with a proper flared base keeps the shopping simple. Compare the measurements rather than guessing from pictures. You can buy something that interests you without deciding how far the evening will go.
Can this be something we choose together?
Absolutely. Browse the shapes together and let the person using it choose the size and pace. A partner can help make the moment relaxed; they don’t need to be in charge of it.
Do I need a whole training set?
Only if you like having options. A single well-chosen small toy can be plenty. A set is useful when its smallest size suits you and you’d appreciate other choices later.
Will vibration make it a better first toy?
It makes it different. If vibration already appeals to you, look for a gentle low setting and easy controls. If you’d rather get familiar with the shape first, a non-vibrating design is a perfectly good choice.
What should I add so I’m ready when it arrives?
Compatible lube, a way to clean the toy according to its instructions and a clean storage spot. A relaxed bit of time is more useful than a big basket of extras.
Do I have to work up to a bigger size?
No. If you find a size you enjoy, you can stay right there. The point is a good experience, not completing a collection.
